This blog is a personal project that I decided to tackle this year. The more I’m learning, the more I’m wanting to share insights, look at what succeeds and fails, and pull out the lessons you and I can both apply to our growth. (more…)
When I was a kid, my mom would remind me, “Did you write Aunt Marion a thank you note yet?” Aunt Marion was my great aunt who lived in Maine. She sent my sister and I cards for our birthdays each year with $5 tucked inside. Even though it was the smallest birthday gift I received, my parents taught me to acknowledge it in the same way I did the bigger gifts.
Whether they intended to or not, my parents and Aunt Marion taught me what I believe is one of the greatest secrets to success:
Recognize small supportive gestures as much as you do the great ones.
One of my mentors, Susan McPherson, sent me a tweet that reminded me of how this factors into my fundraising career now:
To think of it another way: When you get a job interview, let’s assume you know well enough to write your interviewer a thank you note after. Did you also write a note to the person who got your foot in the door? If you’re fundraising and you score a new sponsorship, did you send a note to, or call, the person who was the catalyst for it all? (more…)
The editors at Fast Company invited me to be part of their Most Creative People in Business 1000, which just launched online and is inside this month’s issue. I’m pumped! Here’s why:
The “MCP 1000,” as they call it, gives me the tremendous opportunity to channel our messages and insights straight up to the magazine editors. I’ll also be crowdsourced for trend and news pieces, a chance to show how young leaders are advancing girls’ access to education every day.
What I love most about the MCP 1000 is our common belief that change happens through community. That’s why Fast Company didn’t just publish a list of leaders they think are creative–they are also creating events to bring us together. (more…)
You may have heard the expression: You have two ears and one mouth, so listen twice as much as you speak. I used to live by this.
As a shy student reporter from 2001-2007, I felt I had no story of my own worth sharing so all I did was ask others to tell me theirs. I listened all the time. I was co-editor-in-chief of my high school newspaper and went on to major in journalism at college. There is a cabinet stuffed with my clips at the Tibbetts home in NJ.
A few years later, once She’s the First was born, the tables turned and people started asking me about my story. I talked all the time. That wasn’t a bad thing: I was able to attract a lot of people to She’s the First. I love teaching others how to get involved.
Now, as I look to plug She’s the First into new networks and industries that are unfamiliar to me, I find myself craving so much insider knowledge. Questions swirling through my head include: Who should I be talking to? How do I effectively pitch them? How does philanthropy fit into the company culture?
Then, after speaking with a couple key advisors, it clicked. While those are smart questions to have in mind, might it be questions of the heart that matter more? (more…)
Months before she (or he) sits down in your office to tell you she’s moving on, to go to grad school or work for a non-profit or start-up, she tells me her job just isn’t fulfilling enough. Her time spent volunteering is what challenges and fulfills her more than anything. She looks to me for advice on how to transition her career into a cause. And while that is what I did unexpectedly (I really did love my previous corporate job, too), it’s not always my immediate recommendation to others.
First, I try to challenge her to think whether she can do anything to leverage where she is right now, at her company, for impact. In contributing to the profitability of her employer, how could she influence the company to give back more effectively?
I similarly want to challenge you: Are you providing your employees–especially your Millennial talent–with enough outlets to develop new skills and make a meaningful difference on the world?
Think about it…because I have an idea for you.
I trace it back to four years ago, when my best friend Rachel Hofstetter started a tradition that I love tremendously.
Just like a million people in New York do outside, we count down 10…9…8… till the clock strikes midnight. And then, just as fireworks start to sprinkle the sky, we run. 4 miles with 10,000 people! We are the die-hard participants of New York Road Runners’ Emerald Nuts Midnight Run in Central Park. It is the healthiest, most energizing, majestic start to the new year and I plan to do it for absolutely ever. (more…)